All is far in love and war.  What does that saying really mean?Are they presuming that the two are very similar?I can't be too positive that it was the intended meaning, but there are a lot of things that are similar between the two.

The things that are the same I guess are when the two turns from love into war.  It may still be love between the two but they are at each other like it is war.  I have seen this first hand doing couples therapy San Diego.  A once loving couple is now fighting constantly.It is my main purpose is to be able to bring peace between the couple.  And restore that once great relationship.

So what are the signs of trouble?  One of the biggest warning signs is communication.  Or should I say lack of communication.For all relationships, being able to communicate is critical.Since it is crucial, if you as a couple are able to know that there is less communication, that is a sign.  It is a warning sign of trouble.  Whether I am doing couples counseling or  marriage counseling in San Diego I see it all the time.Because in essence if the couple is not able to communicate, any little problem can turn into a big problem.Being able to properly communicate in a relationship helps to stop that.

So as a family counselor San Diego one of the biggest things I do is try to teach the couple how to communicate.One of the biggest secrets to effective communicating is being able to listen.A lot of people when they think of being able to communicate they think it refers to talking.  But really if you don't listen well, you don't really understand each other.  So by helping the couple listen better their communication improves greatly.

By being able to spot this sign, a couple will be able to better know that trouble may be starting.Now if the couple can spot this problem early in their relationship, they might be able to avoid some serious problems. From what I have seen probably the best method of solving issues is to not have them in a relationship.But if you don't spot that sign early, the prime way to solve the problem is to learn how to communicate.  Sounds simple but it will have a major affect.

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